Thursday, February 9, 2012

Love my Kit Club!!!

Do you ever receive "Happy Mail?" All mail isn't bad mail...I don't know what you receive in your mailbox, but I can tell you that at least once a month, I get some yummy goods delivered!

Since the economy took a hit there are hardly any scrap stores to buy our beloved supplies! So...what better way to keep up with the goods! Join a monthly kit club!

I have been a member of at least 3 clubs...not all at the same time, but out of the 3....this far has been the best! LOVE THE SCRAP ROOM....if you don't know you betta ask somebody!

They give you the option to purchase extras (add-ons) to your monthly kit. On top of the monthly kit...I have added on the cardstock monthly subscription and embellishments. You can never have enough of either...........................ok.....................Im lyin...cuz yeah I know I have too many embellies..but it really sounds weird to admit that...but so what! I bought it all and I will use it all...one day!

Here are the sweet goodies we got this month:

Monthly Kit - Actually contains 4 kits. They individually package these 4 collections...and its stored in plastic...very nice way to keep a kit / project together.

The Embellishments Provided for this month....- all good...

More Cardstock.....YES!!!


If you do not belong to a monthly kit club, check this one out! I strongly recommend it! It will keep you out of the stores somewhat...lol. Enjoy my scrappy friends!




Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Attention Scrappy Friends! DT Call for Jennifer Priest

Hello to all my scrappy friends!

I thought I would help my friend Jennifer promote her DT call!
If you are interested, please visit her blog!

If you try out for her team, wishing you the best of luck!

Visit Hydrangea Hippo today!

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Whats the 4-1-1!? Week of 2/5

*Pattys Page*

The music world is still in shock over the death of Don Cornelius. Cornelius was a true visionary, and he changed the face of TV when he created Soul Train. Cornelius, 75, was found dead from a self-inflicted gun shot wound. What happened in his California home? Cornelius’s son Tony made the 911 call. Police say there were no signs of foul play. Soul Train was the longest running, first-run, nationally syndicated show in television history. Cornelius stopped hosting in 1993, and the show, with various hosts after ‘93, ceased production in 2006. Cornelius was the first African American to create produce, host and own his own television show. He opened the door to many singers, musicians and dancers. The past few years had been rough for him. He was in a troubled marriage, and he pleaded no contest to misdemeanor domestic violence back in 2008. That incident did involve guns. He was divorced in 2009, and he pleaded with the judge to end the marriage to Viktoria Chapman before he died. He had been having many health issues recently, including a stroke, and he was being treated for a brain disorder. With his signature Love Peace And Soul signoff, he was a man who changed the face of television.

Cedric The Entertainer is coming to town. He’s doing a comedy show Sunday, February 12th at the Tower Theatre. In more Cedric news, he’s teaming with Niecy Nash for a TV Land-Hot In Cleveland spinoff sitcom. Nash is also getting a reality show on the TLC network. The show will focus on Nash’s husband Jay Tucker, her three daughters, his son and her mom.

The fallout is still being heard as Simon Cowell shakes up the casting of The X-Factor. Cowell was very disappointed that his singing- reality show never lived up to expectations, and this week he fired the host Steve Jones, Nicole Scherzinger and his buddy, Paula Abdul. Simon is only bringing back Record Exec L.A. Reid. Cowell said his show was going to be groundbreaking but in the end The X-Factor turned out just like the other singing reality shows. Cowell even toned down his act. He was known as “Mr. Mean” on American Idol, but on his own show, he was very nice. What will Cowell do? Will he hire Mariah Carey as a judge on the show? She would definitely bring the crazy. With so many singing reality shows, how can X-Factor stand out? We will soon find out.

Don’t be surprised if you see Will Smith and his son Jaden in town. They are filming Director M. Night Shyamalan’s After Earth, a futuristic thriller. In the movie, which is filming in the area, Jaden plays a teen stranded on an abandoned planet. Will plays his dad. Filming is happening now through April. Will and Jaden last appeared together on screen in the movie The Pursuit of Happyness. Look for Will Smith in March as host of The 25th Annual Kids Choice Awards on Nickelodeon.

Halle Berry's custody battle with her baby daddy has everyone going to counseling. Berry and Gabriel Aubry have been battling it out over their three-year old daughter Nahla. Aubry has already gotten into a scuffle with the little girl’s nanny. He was accused of shoving her, and he has been ordered to go into anger management classes. The judge’s ruling is expected at anytime, but social workers have already recommended to the judge that the joint custody agreement remain in place. This case feels like all the fighting is doing nothing but hurting their child.

Mark your calendars for Monday, February 13th. It’s The 5th Annual BET Honors. Gabrielle Union is hosting the show, and honorees include Spike Lee, Maya Angelou, Stevie Wonder and Mariah Carey. Special musical guests include Aretha Franklin, Patti LaBelle and Common. First Lady Michelle Obama will also be making a special appearance during the tribute to Maya Angelou. In the next few weeks, you are going to see Gabrielle Union everywhere. She is starring in the Tyler Perry movie Good Deeds, which opens in theatres February 24th, and she’s also starring in the new Steve Harvey movie Think Like A Man with Kevin Hart, which debuts March 9th.

Allen Iverson’s bank account is feeling lighter these days. A judge recently had $375,000 taken out of his bank account to pay a jeweler who was suing Iverson for non payment. Iverson is also battling it out with wife Tawanna. She says she and her five children have no money because Iverson removed funds from their account.

Season 2 of Welcome To Sweetie Pie’s kicks off in March on Oprah Winfrey’s OWN cable channel. I love this show! It’s the story of former Ike & Tina Turner Backup Singer/Dancer Robbie Montgomery, her son Tim Norman, her family and her soul food restaurant in St. Louis. The new season will focus on their new restaurant.

Get ready for more reality shows featuring wives. VH1 is developing a reality show featuring the ex-wives of Eddie Murphy and Will Smith. Nicole Murphy and Sheree Smith, who is now a pastor’s wife, will be starring in the new reality show The Ex-List. Filming starts in March.

Another reality show in the works is the Real Preachers’ Wives of Atlanta. The show will air on TLC. Meanwhile, changes are coming to the real housewives of Atlanta. Khandi Burress and Kim Zolciak are leaving the show to star in their own spinoffs. I hear Keshia Knight Pulliam (“Rudy” from The Cosby Show) may be joining the cast when the new season starts. In other reality show news, don’t look for Vanessa Bryant to star in any. The ex-Mrs. Kobe Bryant was offered a lot of money by VH1 to star in a show, but she turned them down saying shows about players wives are not her style.

The Whispers will be in town Friday, February 10th at the Liacouras Center. It’s a lovers’ themed show with The Whispers, The Temptations Review With Dennis Edwards, The Main Ingredient with Cuba Gooding, Sr. and The Stylistics. The Liacouras Center is located at Broad and Montgomery and tickets are on sale now.

Get ready for the return of Basketball Wives: Miami Version. The new season kicks off in February. Royce, Evelyn and Jennifer are back and with new castmates.

What is going on at the Food Network? They have changed their programming. Where is Big Daddy’s House with Chef Aaron McCargo? Where are The Neelys (Pat and Gina Neely) with Down Home With The Neelys? Sunny Anderson's Cooking For Real show is still on but only the re runs. Why is the network getting rid of the shows with people of color? Hmmmmmmmm!

Jennifer Hudson is out promoting her new book I Got This: How I Changed My Ways And Lost What Weighed Me Down. In the book, she talks about how she lost the weight and refuses to gain it back.

Singer D’Angelo’s long awaited album, James River, is due this year, and I hear he will be going on an extended European tour. D’Angelo recently suffered an injury when he fell off a stage in Amsterdam. Another long awaited album is from Singer Tank. Look for Savior this spring featuring the first single Next Breath.

Football’s Terrell Owens is featured in the latest issue of G.Q. magazine. Owens, 37, did not play on an NFL team this year. The wide receiver bares all in the G.Q. issue. He talks about his attitude problems that got in the way of his playing days with the 49ers, Eagles and Cowboys. He says he has no friends, including Kita Williams and Monique Jackson, the two ladies who co-starred with him in his VH1 reality show. He says they were too busy with their own issues. He says his recent suicide attempts where misunderstandings. Owens talked about his babymommas. He has four. He admits he never dated these women, and they were not girlfriends. Owens says they were women he slept with, and now he has to pay them thousands in child support. He is having financial problems and says his partners led him astray blowing $80 million of his money. He says he was told Don’t Worry About The Money…. Concentrate On Football!

Are Chilli and Tyrese dating? Maybe not, but they did develop a close relationship on his new video Nothing On You. The former TLC singer is the leading lady in Tyrese’s new project.

The 20th Annual Trumpet Awards air later this year. One of the highlights is Aretha Franklin accepting an award on behalf of her father the late Rev. C.L. Franklin. Rev. Franklin was recognized for his work with the civil rights movement. Rev. Franklin died in 1984. He spent five years in a coma as a result of a gunshot wound he suffered during an attempted robbery in his home. Singer Tyrese and Earth, Wind & Fire will also be honored during The Trumpet Awards.

Jada Pinkett Smith, hubby Will Smith and Simon Cowell are joining forces for a new talent show judging the world’s best DJ’s.

Singer Erica Campbell from Mary Mary is the proud mom of baby number three. Erica gave birth to a baby girl.

Angelo Dundee, the legendary boxing corner man, has passed away at the age of 90. Born in Philadelphia, Dundee’s career as a boxing trainer spanned six decades. He most famously willed Sugar Ray Leonard into a comeback and defeat of Thomas “Hitman” Hearns in 1981, and helped George Foreman become boxing’s oldest champion in 1994. It was Dundee’s enduring relationship with Muhammad Ali beginning in 1960 that brought him worldwide recognition. He would see Ali though several successful heavyweight title claims, including the Thrilla In Manila. Dundee even recently attended Ali’s 70th birthday party. Dundee’s larger than life persona made the South Philly native a perfect ambassador for the world of boxing.

Actor Robert Heyges passed away last week. Heyges was best known for his role as “Juan Epstein” on the 70’s show Welcome Back Kotter. Hedges died of a heart attack at the age of 60.

Singer David Peaston has passed away at the age of 54. Peaston shot to stardom after winning several weeks on the Showtime At The Apollo show beginning with Host Bill Cosby in the late 80’s. After the Apollo, Peaston cut several albums. In later years, he became an amputee as a result of his diabetes. The former school teacher was most famous for the songs Two Wrongs (Don’t Make It Right) and his remake of Eddie Kendricks’ Can I.

Henry David the bass player from L.T.D. passed away last week.

R Kelly is back with a new song Share My Love. He has a new album, Write Me Back, coming out in May. He is also coming out with a new book about his life titled Soul-A-Coaster. I had a chance to talk to Kelly. He told me he wants people to get to know Robert, and how he came up in the business. The book is coming out June 12th. Kelly is also working on the soundtrack for the Sparkle movie remake. This film stars Jordin Sparks (American Idol) and Whitney Houston. It comes out in August.

A new documentary is coming out about Actor/Comedian Bernie Mac. Mac died at the age of 50 three years ago from sarcoidosis, an inflammatory lung disease. The tribute DVD is coming out February 21st. Chris Rock and Cedric The Entertainer are featured in the documentary.

Flavor Flav’s family issues are making news. Last week his 19-year old daughter, Dazayna, was arrested for assaulting him. Flav says it was a big misunderstanding, and he was never assaulted by his daughter. Cops were called to his Las Vegas home, but Flav says all is well.

Filming starts this week on a new Madea movie. Madea’s Witness Protection co-stars Lil’ Romeo.

Look for the return of Martin Lawrence to TV. Lawrence had the hit Martin show in the 90’s, and he is currently filming two pilots for CBS. One of the pilots will be a TV show in the fall.

Congrats To Actresses Viola Davis and Octavia Spencer! They were big winners at the recent SAG Awards. Winning top actress honors for the roles in the movie The Help.

The 84th Annual Academy Awards is February 26th. The show will air on ABC, and Billy Crystal is hosting. The movie The Help has nabbed four nominations including Best Actress for Viola Davis, Best Supporting Actress for Octavia Spencer and Best Picture.

Steve Harvey is getting ready for his talk show. The show which debuts this fall will be filmed in Chicago. Harvey describes the show as inspirational, uplifting and insightful. He says there will be lots of entertainment and laughs. Harvey says doing this show is a dream come true. His new movie Think Like A Man opens in theatres March 9th.

Raven-SymonĂ© is headed to Broadway. Raven best known for her Disney hit That’s So Raven and for getting her start on The Cosby Show. Raven is joining the cast of Sister Act staring in the lead role. She takes over in March. Raven started on Broadway with The Boys Choir Of Harlem at the age of five.

Paula Patton is one of the Hollywood beauties featured in Vanity Fair’s Hollywood issue.

The 43rd Annual NAACP Image will air on NBC Friday, February 17th. The show had been airing on FOX the past few years, but is now returning to NBC.

Filmmaker Robert Townsend is back with a new project. The movie Diary Of A Single Mom is out on DVD Starring Monica Calhoun, Leon, Billy Dee Williams and Richard Roundtree.

Actor Avery Brooks was arrested on suspicion of drunk driving. The 63-year old actor is best known for his work on the television shows Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, A Man Called Hawk and Spenser For Hire.

Tracy Morgan is battling it out with his family. Morgan has been making headlines lately, most recently with his health scare passing out at the Sundance Film Festival. He couldn’t handle the high altitude. Now, Morgan is fighting with his family. Morgan’s mother, Alicia Warden, who has been estranged from him for ten years, is facing foreclosure on her home in Ohio. Morgan won’t help her. Morgan’s sister, Asia Morgan, says the family feud is mess. Asia says her brother has never been nice and money has made the situation worse.

Actress Kerry Washington is on the latest issue of Essence magazine.


Star Jones is coming back to The View! Jones left the show in a firestorm six years ago, but she’s returning to the show as a guest in February. Jones will be discussing heart disease as February is Women’s Heart Health Month……. and ratings sweeps month.

Fashion Icon Mikki Taylor has a new book dedicated to First Lady Michelle Obama. The book, Commander In Chic, is dedicated to the fashion stylings of Mrs. Obama.

The New England Patriots and the New York Giants will battle it out in the Superbowl. All eyes will be on Indianapolis this Sunday. On Friday, the 3rd, it’s the gospel celebration which is part of the Superbowl festivities with Fantasia, Wayne Brady, Hezekiah Walker, CeCe Winans, and Donnie McClurkin.

Actor Courtney Vance is joining the cast of the ABC show Revenge. Vance is married to Actress Angela Bassett.

Rapper/Actress Eve has joined the cast of the VH1 show Single Ladies. The new season with Actress LisaRaye kicks off in late May.

Get ready for Dancing With The Stars. The 14th season kicks off March 13th.

Actress Sanaa Lathan is the new face of Pantene Pro V Nature Fusion Collection.

The Voice returns to NBC on February 5th. NBC’s singing reality show will feature Celebrity Mentors Robin Thicke, Lionel Richie, Babyface and Ne-Yo. The show’s stars, Christina Aguilera, Adam Levine, Blake Shelton and Cee-Lo Green, will also be returning.


Sheryl Lee Ralph is coming out with a new book Redefining Diva: Lessons From The Original Dreamgirl. Ralph, 55, is married to Pennsylvania State Senator Vincent Hughes, and she is ready to tell her life story. The book comes out in March.


“The Boss” Diana Ross is finally getting a Grammy. Miss Ross is being honored with the Lifetime Achievement Grammy at this year’s awards celebration. That event is held the night before The 54th Annual Grammy Awards February 12th. Ross will be honored along with Glen Campbell, The Allman Brothers and the late Gil Scott Heron.

In more Grammy news, controversial Rapper Kanye West leads all nominees with 7 nods. Other nominees include R Kelly, Raphael Saadiq, Kelly Price, Ledisi, Eric Benet, Cee-Lo Green, Melanie Fiona and El DeBarge. There’s controversy going into the ceremony since the academy chose to eliminate 31 categories. This year will have men and women competing against each other in the vocal categories for R&B, pop and country. The 54th Annual Grammy Awards will be broadcast February 12th on CBS. LL Cool J is hosting. He’ll be the first host of the Grammys in 7 years.


Get ready for another season of Celebrity Apprentice. The new season kicks off February 12th on NBC, and features the TV return of Arsenio Hall and Singer Clay Aiken.

The movie Tower Heist starring Eddie Murphy and Ben Stiller is coming out on DVD in March.

The Broadway musical Memphis is coming to the PBS network February 24th.

Upcoming Movies:

Safe House with Denzel Washington and Ryan Reynolds opens in theatres February 10th;

Tyler Perry’s latest movie, Good Deeds with Gabrielle Union and Thandie Newton, opens in theatres February 24th;

Think Like A Man – based on the bestselling book by Steve Harvey- debuts March 9th with Kevin Hart, Michael Ealy, Gabrielle Union, Melyssa Ford, Meagan Good, Regina Hall and Taraji P. Henson;

Men In Black III opens May 25th with Will Smith, Tommy Lee Jones and Josh Brolin;

Rock Of Ages opens June 1st with Tom Cruise, Mary J. Blige and Catherine Zeta Jones;

Sparkle opens August 10th starring Whitney Houston, Jordin Sparks, Mike Epps, Derek Luke, Cee-Lo Green, Carmen Ejogo and Tika Sumpter;

The DVD release for Mama I Want To Sing is Valentine’s Day February 14th. The movie stars Ciara, Lynn Whitfield and Patti LaBelle.

Celebrity Chefs Pat and Gina Neely (The Neelys) are back with a new cookbook. Their Celebration Cookbook has meals for every occasion. New Year’s Eve, Super Bowl Sunday, Valentine’s Day, March Madness, Christmas, Back to School, and girls’ night out, to name a few.

The Bynum Brothers have a new venture: Green Soul, 7169 Ogontz Avenue. It’s a new healthy food restaurant.

Special Events!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Health Specialist and Author Glenn Ellis has a new health book out called Information Is The Best Medicine. Ellis is a regular guest discussing health on my Sunday morning magazine show Rewind. He’ll be doing a booksigning at the PA Convention Center, 11th and Arch Streets in Room 107 on Sunday, February 19th at 3pm.

The African American Children’s Book Fair is Saturday, February 4th at Community College Of Philadelphia, 17th and Spring Garden Streets. It’s free from 1pm until 3pm. The Literary CafĂ© is sponsoring this event and for more info call 215-878-BOOK.

The 26th anniversary of The Madame CJ Walker Awards Luncheon And Economic Seminar is Saturday, March 10th at the Loews Hotel, 12th and Market Streets. The National Coalition Of 100 Black Women sponsors this event and for more info call 215-970-7114.


WHAT’S THE UNDERGROUND BUZZ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did a music legend call off a ceremony because of too many secrets? This Diva didn’t like all the revelations, including a beau who turned out to be much younger than she knew.

Check out who’s coming to town:

Friday, February 10th- Valentine’s Lovers Show with The Whispers, The Temptations Review starring Dennis Edwards, The Stylistics and The Main Ingredient with Cuba Gooding, Sr. The Liacouras Center, Broad and Montgomery.

Sunday, February 12th- Cedric The Entertainer comedy show at the Tower Theatre, 69th and Market Street in Upper Darby. Tickets on sale now.

Sunday, February 12th- Jeffrey Osborne in concert at the Keswick Theatre in Glenside.

Tuesday February 14th- The Stage play The White Room by Bryant Pugh. Sharon Baptist church 3955 Conshohocken Avenue. For tickets go to Urbantix.com

Tuesday, February 14th- Marsha Ambrosius & Carl Thomas at the House Of Blues in Atlantic City. For info go to ticketmaster.com.

Saturday, February 18th- The Royale Comedy Tour starring Sommore, Bruce Bruce, Earthquake, Tony Rock and Mark Curry at the Liacouras Center, Broad and Montgomery. Tickets are on sale now.

Saturday February 18th- George Clinton’s Parliament Funkadelic at the Keswick Theatre in Glenside.

Saturday, February 25th- Lauryn Hill in Concert at Caesars in Atlantic City. For more info call 1-800-745-3000 or ticketmaster.com.

Friday March 9th- Brian McKnight in concert at Harrah’s in Chester. For more info 1-800-745-3000.

Saturday, March 24th - Comedian Mike Epps at the Liacouras Center, Broad and Montgomery.

Saturday March 24th- Toni Braxton and Babyface at Caesars Circus Maximus Theatre in Atlantic City.

Saturday March 31st- Boney James- Scottish Rite Auditorium, Collingswood, NJ for ticket information call (856) 858-1000;

Tuesday, April 10th- Cirque De Soleil Show featuring the music of Michael Jackson at The Wells Fargo Center (formerly The Wachovia Center).

Friday April 20. 21 Tower of Power, The Average White Band at the Keswick Theatre;

Saturday April 21st- Smokey Robinson at Caesars Atlantic City;

Saturday, May 12th- Charlie Wilson, Patti LaBelle & Johnny Gill at the Boardwalk Hall in Atlantic City. For more info go to Platinumshows.com Mothers’ Day Music Festival.

Saturday, May 12th- Mother’s Day Concert After Party, 6th Floor Trump Plaza Imperial Ballroom 11pm-4pm.

Sunday, May 13th- Up Close And Personal with Keith Sweat at Caesars Circus Maximus Theatre in Atlantic City at 4pm.Read more:

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

100th Post & Scrappy Goods

Just noticed that THIS particular blog made its 100 posting mark...pretty cool beans!
I am thankful to have the followers I do have! Thank you for following my friends. I know alot of you may read and stop bye but not leave luvin! Which is OK! I see you peeking though! Thanks for stopping by though! I appreciate it!

On another note...I was doing my normal scroll through updated blogs and visited one of my very talented friends, Miss Rochelle Spears who just recently celebrated a Birthday!
Anyhow...what I am getting at is that she runs AWESOME monthly challenges and has great RAKS!

So if you are one of my scrappy friends please feel free to visit her blog and participate!

Follow her as well! Love her style! Miss her dearly since she moved to Vegas! Boo hoo!

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

20 Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships

I stumbled across this article through a friend on Facebook...found it pretty interesting and possibly you can gain a little somethin somethin from it! If I see other articles that spark my eye, you may see these more often!

20 Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships
{Article from Marc & Angel Hack Life}

Family isn’t always blood. They’re the people in your life who appreciate having you in theirs – the ones who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways, and who not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be. These people – your real family – are the ones who truly matter.
Here are twenty tips to help you find and foster these special relationships.

1. Free yourself from negative people. – Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to truly live. Read Stumbling on Happiness.

2. Let go of those who are already gone. – The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. The good news is, if you tough it out, you’ll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.

3. Give people you don’t know a fair chance. – When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has changed them, and forced them to grow. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. So appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.

4. Show everyone kindness and respect. – Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are. There are no boundaries or classes that define a group of people that deserve to be respected. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother. People will notice your kindness.

5. Accept people just the way they are. – In most cases it’s impossible to change them anyway, and it’s rude to try. So save yourself from needless stress. Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example.

6. Encourage others and cheer for them. – Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those who are making progress. Cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you.

7. Be your imperfectly perfect self. – In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self. And when they laugh at you for being different, laugh back at them for being the same. Spend more time with those who make you smile and less time with those who you feel pressured to impress. Be your imperfectly perfect self around them. We are not perfect for everyone, we are only perfect for those select few people that really take the time to get to know us and love us for who we really are. And to those select few, being our imperfectly perfect self is what they love about us.

8. Forgive people and move forward. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the remedy. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life. Remember, the less time you spend hating the people who hurt you, the more time you’ll have to love the people who love you.

9. Do little things every day for others. – Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts. You can’t be everything to everyone, but you can be everything to a few people. Decide who these people are in your life and treat them like royalty.

10. Pay attention to who your real friends are. – As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. Remember, life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time, they aren’t even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.


11. Always be loyal. – True love and real friendship aren’t about being inseparable. These relationships are about two people being true to each other even when they are separated. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option, but a priority. Loyalty is everything.

12. Stay in better touch with people who matter to you. – In human relationships distance is not measured in miles, but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
Stay in touch with those who matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort. Remember, you don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of. Paying attention to these people is a priority.

13. Keep your promises and tell the truth. – If you say you’re going to do something, DO IT! If you say you’re going to be somewhere, BE THERE! If you say you feel something, MEAN IT! If you can’t, won’t, and don’t, then DON’T LIE. It’s always better to tell people the truth up front. Don’t play games with people’s heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out; half-truths are no better than lies. Remember, love and friendship don’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.
Never mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours. Always be open and honest.

14. Give what you want to receive. – Don’t expect what you are not willing to give. Start practicing the golden rule. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It works. It really is this simple. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.


15. Say what you mean and mean what you say. – Give the people in your life the information they need, rather than expecting them to know the unknowable. Information is the grease that keeps the engine of communication functioning. Start communicating clearly. Don’t try to read other people’s minds, and don’t make other people try to read yours. Most problems, big and small, within a family, friendship, or business relationship, start with bad communication.

16. Allow others to make their own decisions. – Do not judge others by your own past. They are living a different life than you are. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. Allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.


17. Talk a little less, and listen more. – Less advice is often the best advice. People don’t need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement. What they want to know is often already somewhere inside of them. They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.

18. Leave petty arguments alone. – Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. And most of the time it just doesn’t matter that much. Read How To Win Friends and Influence People.


19. Ignore unconstructive, hurtful commentary. – No one has the right to judge you. They might have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What most people think and say about you isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.

20. Pay attention to your relationship with yourself. – One of the most painful things in life is losing yourself in the process of loving others too much, and forgetting that you are special too. When was the last time someone told you that they loved you just the way you are, and that what you think and how you feel matters? When was the last time someone told you that you did a good job, or took you someplace, simply because they know you feel happy when you’re there? When was the last time that ‘someone’ was YOU?

Saturday, January 28, 2012

My "Friends" are No Good! Enablers!

Who do I blame for introducing me to Pinterest??? Laurie? Wendy? Sasha? Jennifer? Marie? Rachel? Who???
**Holly...I just saw your post to back away before its too late....It was officially too late a few days ago...lol.



Who wants to take the blame? I cannot take responsibility for all of this craziness....I joined Pinterest I believe back in the summer time...but never really understood what all the hooplah was about!? WTH am I supposed to do on Pinterest and I mean what is the point in this whole thing!?


And oh...yeah...Chere! You are the one who told me that they had an app for the Iphone...yeah, at least my husband is not asking me what im doin on the phone...lol..maybe cuz I don't have a husband! But if I did...he would be asking me the same thing.


Speaking of...my babe asked what is Pinterest! Well here you go..


Pinterest is an online pinboard to organize and share your inspirations! Pin your favorite images and videos from anywhere. Discover new things hand-picked by people who share your interests.


(Hopes this helps love)...but this is one of the reasons why I was up till almost 4am last night..total time sucker! Im sorry!


Well if you are one of me bloggy friends FOLLOW ME AND I WILL FOLLOW YOOOOU!!!
One of my fav boards is the FOOD obviously..lol...and the board I added alot to this morning was my Throwback board....check out these greats that made me have some flashbacks:














Signin off..a new Pinterest Junkie!

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Entertainment Week - Catching Up!!

Pattys 4-1-1

No prenup? Then no wedding and no marriage! The Queen Of Soul, Aretha Franklin caved into family pressures and canceled her upcoming summer wedding to long-time beau, Willie Wilkerson. Franklin’s sons did not want her to get married because they were worried about their place in her life and her fortune. Wilkerson and Franklin have been dating for close to 25 years. He felt he didn’t need to sign a prenup, but her sons and family felt differently. In the end, she caved into family pressure. The wedding has been called off, and now everyone is wondering if she will continue her relationship with Wilkerson. Look for Re Re to be one of the headliners of The 2012 Essence Music Festival taking place July 6th, 7th and 8th in New Orleans. Also on the bill are Fantasia, SWV, Keyshia Cole, Mary J. Blige, Ledisi, Charlie Wilson, Raheem DeVaughn, Vivian Green and Stephanie Mills.

High altitude got the best of Actor/Comedian Tracy Morgan. He collapsed at the Sundance Film Festival. Morgan has been ordered to rest after being hospitalized. Doctors are worried about his health since he was a recipient of a new kidney last year.

Everyone wants Vanessa Bryant! The very rich ex-wife of Lakers Superstar Kobe Bryant has been offered a deal by VH1 to be the new star of the L.A. version of their Basketball Wives reality franchise. Will Vanessa take the offer? She was just awarded $75 million and three mansions from Kobe Bryant, who cheated on her for years. They didn’t have a prenup! Will
Vanessa cash in again and be a reality star?

Randy Jackson is firing back at his ex, Alejandra Jackson! Alejandra had two children by Randy then turned around and married his brother Jermaine and had two kids by him! This incident caused major strife in the Jackson family. Alejandra has been using Katherine Jackson and her family by living off of them all these years. Randy says he wants his ex to stop sponging off the Jacksons. It’s been going on for two decades and enough is enough! Randy owes his ex $600,000 in back child support. Randy is fighting this claim because he says he struck a deal Alejandra back in 1993. He claims the deal is she could live in the Jackson estate, and he wouldn’t have to pay child support.

Is the Seal-Heidi Klum breakup a publicity stunt to help him sell albums? Sources say Klum can’t deal with Seal’s volatile temper. He is frustrated with his recording career, and Klum the supermodel is the breadwinner with her millions. They have three kids together and Seal adopted Klum’s oldest daughter. Seal refuses to stop wearing his wedding ring. Could he be in denial? If he divorces Klum, will he go after her money?

The 84th Annual Academy Awards is February 26th. The show will air on ABC, and Billy Crystal is hosting. The movie The Help has nabbed four nominations including Best Actress for Viola Davis, Best Supporting Actress for Octavia Spencer and Best Picture. The Help is also dominating the Screen Actors Guild Awards with four nominations, including Best Ensemble Cast, Best Actress (Viola Davis) and Best Supporting Actress (Octavia Spencer). The SAG Awards take place on February 26th.The Help just won the Black Critics Award for Best Picture.

Is Whitney Houston Broke? Houston is said to be having financial problems. She can no longer perform live and never wrote any of her music. Sources close to the superstar are shutting down reports of her being in financial trouble. Houstonwill be starring in the remake of the 1976 film classic Sparkle with Jordin Sparks. Houston is being urged to write a tell-all book about her life. The music business, the drugs, how the excesses almost killed her and her life with her ex, Bobby Brown, would all have to be in the book. If she tells the truth, the book could be an instant bestseller with copies in the millions!

The Reverend Jesse Jackson is also making headlines. Last week, published reports came out claiming he wasn’t paying child support for his 12-year-old love child. Years ago, Jackson had a child outside of his marriage with his jump off. Karin Stanford got her face cracked when she thought Jackson would leave his wife Jacqueline and marry her. Stanford claims Jackson owes her $12,000 in back support, and says he gives her money when he wants to. Jackson claims he has been paying his child support.

Funeral services are set for Singer Etta James, who died last week at the age of 73 of complications from leukemia. James was best known for her songs Something’s Got A Hold On Me, Stop The Wedding, Tell Mama, and her signature piece, At Last. The public viewing takes place Friday and the funeral services Saturday with Reverend Al Sharpton eulogizing the singing legend.

Star Jones is coming back to The View! Jones left the show in a firestorm six years ago, but she’s returning to the show as a guest in February. Jones will be discussing heart disease as February is Women’s Heart Health Month……. and ratings sweeps month.

Our condolences go out to the family of Fatimah Ali. Ali, 56, was a veteran broadcast and print journalist. She worked at Power 99, WHAT-AM, WURD 900 AM and here at WDAS radio. Ali also worked for the Philadelphia Daily News and Philadelphia Sunday Sun. She was a passionate voice in the fight for others whose voices weren’t always heard. She leaves behind five beautiful children. Ali was fearless in her work and her dedication will always be remembered!

How hot is Ne-Yo? He is on the cover of the latest Ebony magazine. He is one of the young stars of the hit movie Red Tails, and now the singer/songwriter/producer just got a promotion. Ne-Yo has been named the head of A&R (artist development) and senior vice president for Motown Records.

Fashion Icon Mikki Taylor has a new book dedicated to First Lady Michelle Obama. The book, Commander In Chic, is dedicated to the fashion stylings of Mrs. Obama.

I hear a June wedding in Miami could be in the works for Eagles Quarterback Michael Vick and his fiancée Kijafa Frink.

The New England Patriots and the New York Giants will battle it out in the Superbowl. All eyes will be on Indianapolis the weekend of February 3rd. On Friday, the 3rd, it’s the gospel celebration which is part of the Superbowl festivities with Fantasia, Wayne Brady, Hezekiah Walker, CeCe Winans, and Donnie McClurkin.

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